February 25, 2009
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So…I Hate My Ex…
My ex-boyfriend, I., was dating my friend D. for about two months. D. and I were friends during the 11 months I. and I were dating, so its slightly awkward. But I’ve tried to be as supportive as I can…which is difficult when all you want to do is scream he didn’t love me, he used me, he cheated on me, you will be no different. Even without my honesty on the subject, D. decided to break up with I. She said that a few weeks into dating, she lost her virginity to him. Then, that was his only focus. He wouldn’t go see her unless she promised him ‘something’. When she made plans with him, he broke them to be with J.
Tigers really don’t change their stripes. I hate to compare him to a tiger – there is too much honor and passion in a tiger. Perhaps something about a pig, or a worm, or a rat, or a cockroach…
Why am I so bitter about this?
Because even though I was supportive and never told D. to break up with him…he blamed me by shoving me over the stairs. After two stairs, my friend B. caught my arm. I’m thankful but still really upset.
So since October, he has hit me with a car, tried to push me down a flight of stairs, fabricated love notes, shoved me into lockers, badmouthed me and my boyfriend…
Dear Lord, I know lent is a time for forgiveness, but I truly hate him. I have pity on him, but I still hate him no less.
M.
Comments (8)
wow that’s horrible.don’t worry so much,karma will get him 100x’s worse than all of this!
hope everything goes good for youu!
That was deep. You know, it doesn’t matter how angry a man becomes, nothing gives him the right to put his hands on a woman to do harm to her. He sounds like a total loser. This jerk hit you with a car? I hope he doesn;t like try to take his violent temper tantrum further….
@HelloDenise90 - Thank you. I’m watching for that karma lol.
@acrushonmimic - Yeah, enough to knock me down and leave me with a hell of a bruise but nothing too bad. He’s bi-polar so the next day he tries to hug me and that’s when I get really mad…I’m glad C. isn’t like that…
@sonnigenmai - If any guy treats you anyhing less than a queen, he doesn;t deserve to be in your presence.
Omg you poor girl! He sounds abusive! I feel like I want to kick his ass and I don’t even know him. You did all the right things-like being supportive of your friend. I say its ok to hate him LOL he’s a jerk.
@ally_bay_bee - -laughs- Theres a line of people who want to kick his ass if you’d like to join. He really wasn’t all that abusive when we dated, which I don’t get. But yeah, hating him is okay I think too.
@acrushonmimic - Thank you very much
My goodness. I would hate the ******, too. Wow. I can’t believe he did all of those horrible things. Have you tried to talked to the authorities about this? I’m almost positive they could fix the problem.
Above all, he’s just jealous. He’s angry at you because he’s angry at himself and the crappy decision he made. Don’t let him get to you. Try not to waste your time nor your energy on him. If you do, you’re just giving fuel for the fire.
Smile and live life, love your sweetheat and take care, my friend.
sounds like a real keeper. i trust he’s ancient history by now?