Just so we are clear, I have not, nor do I plan on, cheating on Adam. Especially with his fraternity brother.

That said, I am very close friends with him, and we both realized today that maybe we were getting too close emotionally. We agreed to figure out specific barriers, and spend less time around each other. I really do love Adam, but I’m worried when he tends to shove me off on his frat brother when he doesn’t have time for me. I agree with all of you that I need to focus on Adam and figure out how to get that closeness back. I miss him.

If anyone has nonjudgemental advice I’d love to hear it. I’m really trying to do the right thing, and I hope this is just a stupid phase.

May